it's about a girl who thinks she's found love but afraid to accept it, right?
i think its more about afraid to love the guy back because of her childhood experiences...
but it also says of her other experiences with other guys, so its not that she doesn't believe in love, it's just that she's been hurt too much to trust.
it doesn't center on the trust, but on the fact that the guy lets her rely completely on him, so much that she can even disregard all the bad experiences from her childhood or her previous dates.
about the music video, why does it show her putting make-up and a nice dress? i understand the part about the church but...
hmmm, maybe the make-up and dress is to cover up who she actually is; make-up and dresses appeal to girls probably because they beautify and promote the person wearing them. so it could be that she tries hard to up her self-esteem with them, you got to admit she's beautiful in them.
OK, maybe that's the point, but it doesn't blend in with the theme of love?
sure it does, good self esteem = positive attitude = dare to find love or probably find someone who will think the same about you as you think.
that's true...