♪♥♫ THE STARS LEAN DOWN TO KISS YOU. ♪♥♫
Ok. time to say.
to those who thinks class are not well bonded:
some of the people thinks our class maybe not bonded as before.
After some of you are attached, well, the class isn't bonding.
Here to say: well. we have to give them some "space". freedom.
It's hard for them to balance well between love and friends. especially when their
loved ones is in same class.
We can't expect them to like stick to the friends most of the time.
They got their own partner so sometimes when they 2 go their own ways
we have to understand.
If you're the one in love, you sure will want to stay with your loved ones
most of the time won't you?
And they are trying hard to bond. we can see.
like*****sorry to use you as example) ,
He still hang out with zihan and javier and walks around in class.
than sometimes go find his ahem and still bond with his ahem's group of friends what.
maybe you just say he only hang out with this 2 groups.
but the problem is well
sometimes we only hang out with some people because
we're used to them.
we're close to them.
our characteristics are matching.
than why not other groups?
some of the other groups like ning feng group
they got people like xiaochen.
they're from china and when they know that both have similar "thing"
they tend to trust each other more than others.
and have more things to share with each other.
gloria's a good example too. *sorry to use you as example)
she's got similar fave with tianyi, szemin. they 3 like sesame street don't they?
But gloria, still in contact with her friends and does not just concentrate in
their zhi ma jie. although they're close all the time
she don't forget her friends don't she? she still will talk to them
and joke with them.
some people don't bond because of their own characteristics.
maybe they're not those outgoing type.
but did anybody try to stay with them and make them associate with other people?
no right? is like than you all say maybe he or she is not bonded with class.
but the main thing is, they need someone who knows the class well
to tell them more about the class so that they know more about the class
and hence speaks up more.
the couples.
they need their freedom.
after being attached, you know that you have to sacrifice for your love ones.
so maybe they sacrifice part of their time with friends.
we have to understand them.
even if it is your best friend who've got attached.
he or she wouldn't like ignore you totally.
they still talk to you right?
so well.
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